tdb: cleanup: tdb_nest_lock/tdb_nest_unlock

Because fcntl locks don't nest, we track them in the tdb->lockrecs array
and only place/release them when the count goes to 1/0.  We only do this
for record locks, so we simply place the list number (or -1 for the free
list) in the structure.

To generalize this:

1) Put the offset rather than list number in struct tdb_lock_type.
2) Rename _tdb_lock() to tdb_nest_lock, make it non-static and move the
   allrecord check out to the callers (except the mark case which doesn't
   care).
3) Rename _tdb_unlock() to tdb_nest_unlock(), make it non-static and
   move the allrecord out to the callers (except mark again).

Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>