tdb2: more fixes and tests for enlarging hash.

tdb2: more fixes and tests for enlarging hash.
- Neaten I/O function
- Don't use fill in zero_out: it's only for low-level ops.
- Don't mangle arg in tdb_write_convert: it broke write_header.
- More use of tdb_access_read, make it optionally converting.
- Rename unlock_range to unlock_lists.
- Lots of fixes to enlarge_hash now it's being tested.
- More expansion cases tested.